Well, there was drama tonight. I came home from work and my W was already there to pick up my S. Her car was out in the street. That could only mean one thing - she had OM with her and she was adhering to the bare minimum of the boundary I had established.
During the hand off, I politely but firmly asked her to refrain from bringing OM to my house again. She claimed since they were going out to dinner, that it would be highly inconvenient to pick up my S and go back and get OM. I suggested she could drop him off somewhere if that's what she needed to do, but I didn't want this in my face anymore. I asked her how she would feel if the tables were turned. She claimed it wouldn't bother her. She went on to say that we're not "together". I just replied with, "You know we don't see it the same way. I am just telling you straight up how I feel." She just said OK, and left.
Ugh - emotionally exhausting. However, I couldn't just let that one by. I felt I needed to say something.
I am definitely going to need the 26 mile ride tonight in the dark.
