Cadet, I've been reading about Pursuer, Distancer, Hoovering, and Monster (!). It's a lot of information, but so far what I've read makes sense to me. Forgive me if I am being a bit slow, but is that what you mean with:
"Re-read MY advice and follow all of it"?
Your advice was for me to:
"Try google searching for the title of the book with the word mlc. You are correct that their is no e-book, and the book may be out of print. You do not need to buy it. And understand that this book is a relationship book, not one on MLC. If you find any information on it, like a book review, then you might register for that website."
Am I even on the right website? Could you be more specific? I feel that you are sitting on a wealth of information and knowledge that I need right now, and that I am clueless as to what to DO with the information.