Husband left me...feel hopeless

[hopingandpraying]

Ben,

Thank you for your post!

As for GAL, I started taking a Zumba Class and have started reading more. With my job, I come home late most nights and have a dog that I need to come home to, so it's hard to do things on the weekdays. As for the weekends, I go out with friends more and was also thinking about taking a cooking class. I have never been much of a cooker so that might be something fun and different.

I just finished my Master's degree, so there are no further classes that I want to take there...my goal with that is to just pay off my loans before I get my next Masters degree. I already eat healthy...so I guess I should start working out...that would be something I could do that would be a 180 for me. I've never been very good at working out...haha! So that is something I could work on.

I know I am doing these things for me, but I don't see it helping my R any, because to this day, my H has not made any complaints about me (not saying that I'm perfect by any means). He has even put it into writing for his psychologist that he has "a great/near perfect wife and that he's just not happy."

I just hate this painful feeling...