DBing while settling finances

[needgrace]

Hi sh, I read your posts (so similar!) and am wishing the best for you in your situation too. how are you doing?? thank you for your support, it really helps to not feel so alone in this and to learn from all the wise people here. i will remember your words about letting people be who they are..

i have not heard from my W in a few days and it feels as if she is just running away without a backwards glance... i am not contacting her and trying to trust the process. i had a nightmare last night that she was dating someone else..ouch.

i have a lot of growing to do, i realize now how i lost myself in the relationship and my ability to make myself happy. i am sure that was not attractive to my W either. i think she lost herself too and thinks that she can't be together and be herself.

i am getting stronger though, i did not think i could make it through this and i am doing it, surviving...and hopefully, on my way to thriving.

please let me know how you are, sh, and i am still hoping with you, for you!