Have the two of you discussed counseling? I think you need someone to help you navigate the R in the beginning.
If at the very least, I recommend that she read "Project Happily Ever After". It's a book as well as a blog from a WAS that she will find funny and yet very meaningful.
Thanks Bond. We have not discussed the possibility of marriage counseling since January when she brought it up. She decided that she needed to get into individual counseling before she could consider committing to working on the M and before committing to marriage counseling. She started that in January and is continuing on a weekly basis. She knows that I am ready to begin marriage counseling whenever she is. I guess the problem is that she is still not ready to fully commit to the marriage and is therefore hesitant to do marriage counseling.
I will check out that book. I've never heard of it. Thanks for the recommendation!
Denver
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
