Husband left me...feel hopeless

[ben11]

HAP,

Specifically what are you doing for your GAL activities?

When I really committed to it, I was pretty doing something 4 or 5 days a week. Exercising, cooking classes, hanging out with friends, church groups, hockey, and night classes were all things I was doing. 2 months in, I'm still doing these things. They became a part of my routine. Sure, some days its nice to just stay at home, get some chores/errands out of the way, but for the most part, busy is good.

The nice thing about some of my GAL activities is that they were also 180's. I did a 12-day cleanse, and adopted a healthier diet. The cooking classes were instrumental in this. I found out that I actually liked cooking. I might have made dinner for my wife maybe 4 times in our 2 years of marriage. Finishing my degree was a sign that I was trying to better myself, and not being lazy and complacent (another of her complaints). And all the exercise (cyling, hockey, etc) was me also being healthy. Healthy body, healthy mind.

So... what are you already doing, and what are you planning on doing? You might have noticed, every single time I write to you, I bring up GAL. For me personally, it was the #1 reason I even have a chance at R.