Have the two of you discussed counseling? I think you need someone to help you navigate the R in the beginning.
If at the very least, I recommend that she read "Project Happily Ever After". It's a book as well as a blog from a WAS that she will find funny and yet very meaningful.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
