I would definitely distance yourself a bit and let him lead. Let him be the one to initiate contact, let him be the one to schedule dates. When you go back to your DB appointment and the coach asks if you went on your dates, let H be the one to explain why you did or you didn't. You've shown that you're willing, you've done your job. Let him miss you for awhile.

Accuray

Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced
M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11
Start Reconcile: 8/15/11
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced)
In a New Relationship: 3/2015