I also found out today that OW actually moved to the same city as my H to be closer to him in Nov. She lives down the street from his parent's house!! He keeps telling me that he left me for our own marriage issues not because of her but what he can't recognize is that we had no hope from the beginning of our separation because he wouldn't break off his relationship/friendship with her. He kept comparing me to her so every time he was saying he was trying, he wasn't really. Because truly trying would have been to cut off all ties so your mind wouldn't be clouded by another woman!!
He was still hanging out with her and talking with her all the time. How in the world did he think he was going to try to save his marriage while sneaking around behind my back and continuing on with her? Honestly, they can have each other. He is not the person he once was and in my mind I don't know that he ever will be again.
Me: 32 H: 32 M 9 yrs #1 D7 #2 S5 #3 D2 Bomb 8/12/11 H moved out 8/14/11 PA started w/H & OW in 1/12 - found out 3/24/12 Got my own place 8/25/12 H & OW move in together 9/15/12 Still married.
