Keeping the Kids Out of It

[PrincessP]

We owe parents a ton of money; they gave us money for the down payment of our house. I have been giving back money in increments at the beginning of every month.

H comes to the house regularly to visit D4. I catch him looking forlorn at the house. It’s our first home and it’s beautiful. A week after he first left and had a verbal explosive on me about finances and how “he can afford the house and I can’t.” I have this awful feeling he is going to start accumulating his earnings and say that he will buy me out of the house. Oh God…I don’t want H and OW trying to play house and happy family in the home we saved for, and parenting our D4. This is ugly.