I think they are his property and he's entitled to have them. Asking him what he wants them for - think about all the various ways this conversation could go, and whether any of them would really prevent anything. You should talk to a lawyer right away and find out how to protect yourself financially. You may need a formal separation agreement.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.