WAW roomate is telling me she is moving out..

[hangten]

Last night while making dinner like I always do. My w arrived home and started to talking to me very direct and with out any friendliness. My w was preoccupied with Friday night. My w is going out and spending the night out with friends from work. My S has a hockey game on Friday at 4pm on the west end of the city. I am the coach of that team so I will not be able to look after my D. My w is in crisis mode. My MIL usually looks after the kids but since it is getting close to Easter, My MIL wants to go to Friday service. I told my w I will make arrangements to have my M look after my D. I called my M and arranged for her to take My d the whole Friday. That means My w will have to drop the kids off earlier on Friday morning. Only fair that she has to be a little inconvenienced. I let my w know what the plans were for Friday. My w was not happy but realized that it was a better option than utilizing her niece to look after our D for a few hours.

My w was still a bit snappy. I stopped her and said do you notice the way you speak to me. My w said that she wants to make sure things are done. I made arrangements for our D. I asked my w Do you hate me? My w said no. Do I repulse you? My w said no. Why did you state to me that you should not have had kids with me? My w said sorry and said that I frustrate her. I stated that you frustrate me as well but I respect you enough not to say hurt full things. My said that you use to say hurtful things. I agreed I was not best...but I am trying to change the way I am with everyone. My w said that she likes the changes in me but it is hard to see them when she can only remember all the Bad things.

The phone rang it was MIL. I left the room went upstairs. My w finished the call and came upstairs to talk some more. Light conversation and she asked if I wanted to come down and join the kids watching Americas funniest videos. I told her I will be down in a few mins.