I'm really seeing what happened to end us. Anyway, this friend of his, I would say best friend has been struggling w his m. for a long time. I'm sure because they spend a lot of time together, they commisserate, they wind it up, "get divorced". Because of convo. w h. today, he mentioned his friend said get a lawyer, blah, blah, blah,.
He seems to be invested in all this. I really think his friend is living vicariously thru our div. sorry about spelling. This guy, is like a guru to my h. in workplace, and h. thinks he is a god like figure. My ex has some serious insecurity issues. he really puts this guy, at some really high level?? I think he is really bright but really screwed up He has a horrible marriage and doesn't treat his wife vey well. I hate him and the influence he has on my h. The weekend he came home from a visit to him, h. dropped bomb. I feel like he filled my h. head with all sorts of crap, that he was projecting about his m. but none of this matters, my h. is d. me. i just have had a realization about how susceptible my stbx is to outside influence,. but I did know that he has insecurities. I'm just realizing how an insecure spouse can be affected by outside influences and it pisses me off, He, the friend, is trying to work out his own crap with his wife with my h. The bomb dropped after he spent weekend w him. This all became apparent tody after H. said, his friend said, right gefore he dropped bomb yes you need to get a lawyer and advisng him about all legal matters. Hate him. Friend said?? and is advising him. I really think, my h. is insecure and letting a STRONG friend who has marriage issues influence him. Weak husband, my crap, equals divorce.
