I just want to be friends...

[breakdownbill]

Hey YC

I hope you get good news about the rental property closer to the city & your friends and family. That would be such a boost for you if that went through.

I'm feeling a bit more positive today, must be something to do with the good weather we are having over here in England (it's very rare to get a week of sunshine over here - ;-) )

I know what your talking about with the insecurities your H is feeling. I'm trying really hard to work on them. I think I'm going to take some self confidence and assertiveness courses in the summer. I think the key for your H just like me is letting go of the guilt and focusing on being a better person. Someone that wants to look their best for their W, who wants her to be proud and admire him, someone who treats their W good, and puts their W's happiness as a priority. Someone who makes you feel special being around them, someone they desire and cherish openly and freely.

This is what I want for my M more than anything, but I'm going to have to be patient with my W and keep working, just like you and you H, until hopefully they are ready to let go of their fear and live through the highs and lows of a M.

All these things that I want, I want them for you YC & I know that when your H wakes up, you are going to make each other so happy and he will be your man for the rest of your lives.

Stay positive & keep your fingers crossed on that property.

Bill