Keeping the Kids Out of It

[PrincessP]

Have an emergency question to DB. H asked for his checks last night. Do I ask him what they will be used for?!?!

Background: H and I maintain separate checking accounts and a shared savings. I have maintained all the financial transactions of our household even before we were married.

Since he is in MLC and living with OW I am DBing with a lot stacked against me. H also maintains his anger towards me. H taking checks is scary because I need his financial support. What scares me more is will he let OW start "taking care" of finances.

PLEASE HELP! ANY ADVICE???