How do you try to take care of yourself with finances in sep. agreement, without p. H. off? It's been amicable till now, now since I got L. I just don't. I think he IS trying to be fair, I've been operating in that capacity, but now it's coming down to the real deal. He's the one running the numbers here, but I'm looking at living off of $854 s.sec. at age 67 and he's going to have a ton of money. I'm 58 now. I'm going to get some expert advise for my own well being. I need to look out for me in my "old age". But how does this work for db'ing. Is this going to wreck the reasonalbe relationship - still want to be friends? I am so sick of this. So much uncertainty.
