We have our second post-bomb couples counseling session coming up in a few days.

I could really use any advice at all about how to handle myself. I'm reflecting on how to apply this approach while actually in a therapy session with the W.

Does anyone have any advice on topics/issues into which NOT to delve during the session at this point?

Is it helpful for me to hold back expressing certain emotions or certain levels of emotions?

Are there any topics I should just plain avoid completely?

Anything I should really focus on?


(formerly crushd)
Married 14 yrs
M41/W43/D7/S4
M: MLC, major depression/W: WAW
Bomb 2/26/12, 2 days before anniversary
Detachment, Grown Apart, "I love you like the father of my children", EA/PA?