BB and Purg - I was one of those little boys and I can tell you that there is no easy was around it for a young guy when Dad leaves. You have a lot on your plate and I can remember my Mom going through it.
One thing, when your boys get a bit older, maybe around 10 they are going to be very into guy only stuff, and they will cringe when Mom tries to get involved. Im just saying...try not to take it personally. Who knows maybe all will be well long before the time they reach that age!!!!
Organized sports and things like that help because they get some guy attention, which trust me, they crave at that age.
