Good point about stop doing what doesn't work. I agree with that whole-heartedly but you're right it's just so hard!
I really am happy for you and your story is an inspiration to me because you showed such patience and understanding throughout.
M: 27 H: 28 T: 8 yrs M: 6 yrs Sep: 2/18/12 (I have no feelings for you!) EA/PA Uncovered: 2/26/12 H introduces OW to his fam: June H moves ALL stuff out: July