Now the work begins....

[angel61]

Life,

I think once piecing starts and the "crisis" is over, a lot of what happened in the past comes back. It haunts us, gives us insecurities, the why questions come, the tortuous thoughts.

I don't know why, but I think this is part of LBS's journey.

This is one of the things that could derail piecing, I believe. I have been there, and in the few short months that we have been piecing, I have confronted my H, doubted him, continued snooping, etc. all to the detriment of our recovery. I haven't posted yet, as I am trying to deal with thisin a different way.

All I could say is for now, try to restrain those thoughts, and when you are wrestling with insecurity, try to think of how much the sitch has imporved so far and all of the things that you have learned from it. Think positive, push the negtativity out. In a sense, continue your DBing by working on yourself.

Just remember, we have the gift of time. Concentrate on each baby step. Look at your feet and not at the road ahead.