I mentioned how I'm really going to need a NC letter of some sort, soon. He told me to trust him to handle that with her, so that's what I'm doing.
He didn't think he should share with you his plan in how he would "handle that with her"?
I asked him briefly right before my 15 minutes with just us were over, so we didn't get into it further. I'm actually not too concerned about it for now. I'd rather find out in a week or two that she doesn't talk to the guy anymore, and because it was a decision she made for herself. If that's not the case, and things are still progressing, and I feel like I need to bring it up, I'll work on that with the MC. I trust his guidance.
Every day is a better day than the last. If and when we hit some snags and seem to be backsliding over a number of days, we can see what course of action to take then. Until then, I'm happy to be where I am. To borrow the analogy from these boards, the squirrel is eating from my hand. I'm just gonna keep my hand still and enjoy it, and not scare it away.
M:28 | W:28 | T:4.5 | M:2.5 | No Children EA1 Uncovered: Jun 2011 EA2 Uncovered: 2011-09-29 S: 2011-09-29 I'm moving on: 2012-05-08 My story: http://bit.ly/K3ttPM