hello helpers, another question; should i continue cooking dinner for my husband when he comes home? i'm retired and he's not. if i want to be the woman he would never want to leave, shouldn't i continue making dinner for him and bringing him his coffee in the morning? or would i be pursuing and being a doormat? this is all so confusing for me.

i have been almost totally dark for several weeks. he does not contact me, either (he's working out of town until tomorrow). i think he found out i went to ohio to visit my sister three weeks ago and that upset him (long story about an old flame i saw at a reunion last august while he was with me but not more than that, no flirting or anything but he seemed insecure about it).

thanks for any help you can offer!


M:63
H:53
S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23
M:15
T:16

Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways."
H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12
12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing