Would I be wrong in thinking you are the type girl who thinks she should go by the "what's right" rule? It's hard when the other S is not doing what's right. I was the wayward one in my M, and it's my personal experience, plus what I've read about, that I say this.....I think it would be fair to assume your H is addicted to these sites.
If you didn't consider what was right....what would you want? Do you love him and do you want to stay with him now that you've found this out about him?
Is he employed? Does he have other addictive issues? Do you worry if he's watching the baby or on the computer? You have a lot to think about, Jen. I'm so sorry this has happen. You have so much on your plate right now, and I wouldn't blame it all on hormones. Not wanting to have sex could be simply b/c you are exhausted. I would also guess that you are not that attracted to your H, and no wonder!
Do you have family that lives near by? You need a lot of support. You'll have it here, but you need family, too.
Sorry for asking so many questions. Just trying to get a better picture. I hope you will post as often as possible.
BTW, I am one of those "what's right" girls, too. I was on the wrong path, but I found my way back to doing what's right.
((hugs))
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
