have you heard of non violent communication? marshall rosenthal? my IC had recommended it to H and i. the concept is good. difficult to put into practice without getting all emotional.
it might be helpful to you? to ask for what you need in a way that allows it to be ok for him to say no without you feeling hurt? they have youtube clips. just a thought.
otherwise.. yes you are super cute! racy picture huh?? lol
Me:38.. H:33. Two beautiful kids S:6 D:3 M:8.. together for 11. Bomb dropped:10/17/11 Separated:11/07/11