Yes, 6 months separated (and counting). She was living with her parents during this time. The first 3-4 weeks we didn't really communicate much. Then we met up for coffee once and it seemed like things were going to turn around. We were texting a lot more, but still not much (every other day). Things slowly got less and less and we would go weeks without even a peep. It was hard. I felt like during this time, I just wasn't getting the response I was expecting and would shut down.
Then in Feb after a marriage semenar, I kind of went dark for a few weeks which was very hard as well, but something I felt I really had to do. This is when I really focused on GALing. So important to do so.
That kind of brings us to now, where we're in 'reset' mode. Things are back on track. Not the exact track I want, but a track I'm happy to be on.
Hang in there. Your situation could turn around tomorrow, but more likely months from now. And by months I mean anywhere from 1-6 (or more). Take it day by day, get a life, and do the best you can at focusing on your self, and what you can control. I know its tough, but it does get easier.
M:28 | W:28 | T:4.5 | M:2.5 | No Children EA1 Uncovered: Jun 2011 EA2 Uncovered: 2011-09-29 S: 2011-09-29 I'm moving on: 2012-05-08 My story: http://bit.ly/K3ttPM
