BTW, if it helps, when I found out about W and OM, it dominated my thoughts 24x7 for months. I felt tortured and it was hard to function. That was 8 months ago now. At this point, I don't think about it at all, it's a distant memory. When I do think about it, it's easily dismissed. You'll get there.

Also, if you ever get to the point where you feel I'm doing more harm than good for you, just let me know, I will not be offended.

Accuray

Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced
M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11
Start Reconcile: 8/15/11
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced)
In a New Relationship: 3/2015