Point taken, Barb. I do think about what I want. It's hard when there is one day a week that we can spend together. If something happens, we lose that and there's no "we'll just see each other tomorrow". Certainly, I have fears. Will this person suddenly just not want me anymore? What if my feelings change? Is this enough? But, with any R we have to take it a day at a time. I'm enjoying her, feel close to her and for now that's good. We'll see where the future leads us. We're both trying