"All in all, we're still enjoying each other and that's what counts, doesn't it?"

Are you in doubt?

I guess it boils down to what you want in a relationship and if the relationship is meeting your expectations.

You 2 don't spend much time together but you do connect daily. Is that enough?

I know that she makes you laugh and feel cared about and that is all good. Is it enough?

Remember with respect to her job that you can't rescue her. And you are only getting her side of it. Yes - they sound like jerks but on a bad day at my house - I'll bet I sound like a jerk to my employees too. But I'm not. Remember that she made the choices that got her to where she is and she has to make the choices for change if she so desires.

Between the 2 of you - there have been more sick weeks than well weeks. That is not so good. I truly hope that the Spring will bring you better health so you can continue to enjoy good times together.

Not to burst your bubble (although it sounds like it) - but Wii - it is important to periodically ask yourself these questions. "Is this what I want?". You DO sound happy but sometimes it sounds like you're trying to convince yourself.

Like me - you are one of those people who tries to DO TOO MUCH for the ones we care about. And we're not always appreciated for it. Just be careful.

I want you to be happy. Not just for today. But for all the tomorrows ahead.

Barb