W told me she is done & doesn't love me anymore-P2

[mindfull]

Snowman.

I think you've talked enough.

If I were you...

I would focus on you and your son. Any interractions w/her will be an example of the changes you have made (that you considered needed to be made).

I would lead by example.

I would implement some solid guidelines for scheduling of son visitation/flexibility.

I would be pleasant, but only engage in conversations regarding son.

I would cut off her ability to use you as an interim "fix" for conversation/emotional intimacy.

I would absolutely make sure you are protected financially. (debt)

Lastly, I would move on.

She may come back w/real remorse one day... But, Starsky said it best... This isn't a quick fix. You needs to see their changes for more than months... Possibly over a year. Words match actions.

If she doesn't come back w/real remorse, you've already begun a solid foundation for you and son.

Stop feeding her.