Also, I am in counseling myself already to better myself and understand how to deal with her better. I think you missed a few things chatter. I HAVE been educating myself on her condition even before the last breakup. The problem I had was that I didn't care that much if she changed or got better before. I knew of her behavior and her issues! And about things I could be doing to help her. My anger with her simply didn't allow me to care enough to help her get better. I completely understand your concern with her depression and am very grateful for your care. I know you understand the worst case scenario with depression and are concerned with me, and our son but as far as I know, her case is more mild. I do not believe setting excessive boundaries etc is helpful at this point. Already tried that. Again, I am doing well. Of course I get in sad moods from time to time but I am already strengthened through Christ mentally and physically. I understand the focus on self but right now I am OK and will continue to be. All the great advice has been helpful.
