W told me she is done & doesn't love me anymore-P2

[Snowman]

Starksy-I know questioning cheaters is pointless now. I learned my lesson on that during my learning phase. Its time to just straight up tell her I know about the cheating and that I can't live like this as you said.

Mr. Bond-What do you mean about bringing up issues when she plays the blame game? I don't think she thinks I'm cheating which is why she is trying so hard to hide her cheating or numerous communication with other men. She had the audacity to confront me one time about me looking at the cell phone bill months back and say that I was calling people on the list. I said do you have something to hide and she try to brush it off as someone's mom had been sick and they happened to have late conversations about it. Well I knew that guys name too.

I have tested going dark for a while and I don't think it really does anything to my W.

Mindfull-I had posted a while back about writing a letter when my D was near the end of the road and I was going to write one last letter. I have not sent it and not sure that I really need to since most of the content was shared with her in my last conversation anyway and she would probably just brush it off.

I think my W is very lonely as she just goes crazy with texting and calling people all day long. I really think she can't handle being on her own and has to be with someone or talking to someone every second of the day.

Should I just setup another time to talk to say these things or what? Should I talk about how I'm a work in progress and working on not repeating the past as 25yearsmlc mentioned? Should I have the OM talk with her now or later?