I'll have to admit it y'all, there are times where a feel a bit of WAS syndrome coursing through my veins. If my W wanted to come back today, I'd have to be convinced it's not just going to be more of the same and that she's made some positive changes in her life. Unfortunately, I haven't seen too many positive changes. She has dug our relationship into a bigger hole to climb out of.
That all being said, I still would be absolutely delighted to have my family back. Especially if involved a new and improved W, new and improved me, and a new and improved M.
13.5 months after the bomb, I'm still in the game. It may not obviously look good, but I'm still in it.