In California, if one spouse bad mouths the other spouse to their children-
it's called "parental alienation" and one can lose custody over it. IT's very frowned upon by the courts.
(Which leads me to the joke that says "so if you want to call your h a #$%^&!!!, --you have to stay m!"... ba da bump!)
But seriously, I'd start taking notes about what he tells your son.
you might want to warn your h about this law since your real goal is stopping him from doing it.
Tell him your L told YOU not to bad mouth him (not that you would want to hurt your son by bad mouthing his dad anyhow, which is why YOU did not tell him about OW months ago!!!---'& you're welcome bozo')
b/c of the laws against parental alienation.
You assumed his L told him the same but evidently NOT...so suggest he call his L to verify this (he probably won't since he'll get charged)
b/c it seems he wants to play dirty and blame. But he lives in a glass house
and he needs to shut up & man up, asap.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
