Didn't get to surf, darn it. I ended up staying home and working on washing cars and getting stuff ready for the quilt guild meeting.

My H continues his frenzied working on getting the house ready to list. I have been trying to help him, though it is hurting me to see how darn happy he seems to be moving on in his life.

I am putting on a happy face and just trying to step along. Since we do need to sell the house.

One of my quilting friends works at a law firm. She got some names of lawyers for me. I know many think I should be waiting and letting him file first. But with the house sale and total confusion about how much money I may or may not have, I think I need to take steps and protect myself.

And protecting myself may well involve filing and figuring out what I will have. Just writing about it makes my stomach hurt.

On that happy note I am going to go out and pressure wash something, so H can paint it when he gets home. He is also painting like a maniac without approval from out homeowners association. I brought it up to him, and he ignored me.

So when someone reports it and we get a nasty letter from the association I am going to have to laugh. He really doesn't think rules apply to him anymore!


Me 57 XH 58 Sons age 32 & 27 M:32
D final 9/12
Bought 10 Acres and Living the Dream!