CDavis - I know I can't do anything else but what I am already doing. So far so good.
Thanks Cadet! (Yes, I know how to search for your posts)!
And thank you YankeeCandle. Today I was feeling good, and sort of just smiled at the nonsensicalness of H's thinking. I def do NOT want to argue with him. I try as best I can to create positive situations when H is here, while at the same time give him the space he needs.
