Divorce....with a side of crazy...

[imthemom]

This post is for the most part to vent...am getting so frustrated with how STBX is bad mouthing me to S15 everytime he is around him. I have sent him 2 emails asking him to stop, that it is causing S15 stress and he shou ld not be put in the middle of our problems. Ive told him if he has something to say to me please say it to me..and not to S15 and have promised him that I would do the same, I think the fact that I covered for him and his ow for months and did everything I could to keep S15 from finding out would show him that. I didnt throw him under the bus...

Every time S15 comes home from spending time with his D he is so angry and disrespectfull to me and I couldnt figure out why..then he starts telling me things his D has said and I think, well no wonder. This weekend he cancelled on him but then ended up getting him for one night. When S15 came home he was in his usual fowl mood and I left him alone. Today he is talking about his D and says that he asked his D to take him to get some shoes...his D told him that I have more money then him and that he needs to quit asking him for stuff and ask me, and that he is broke because he is paying my bills.....OMG!!!...he makes 4xs what I make and I cant even buy groceries most weeks...I told S15 we werent going to talk about his D and left it at that but I really want to just sit him down and say "here, look" and show him his Ds paycheck stubs and show him mine....it would be very obviouse.

I wont do that because in my opinion that is not something S15 needs to be involved in but that fact that his D would lie like that to try to make S15 think less of me just makes me want to scream...
He is acting as if IM the one who did something horrible to him, like Im the one who had the affair and walked away from him...I have done nothing and he is constantly attacking me. Both times ive emailed him he says Im right, he trys really hard not to say anything, its not S15s problem its ours...blah blah blah....

Im at a loss as to what I can do....I guess nothing, but Its just so immature and ridiculouse that he goes to that level...AAAAAAGGG!!!!!

ok, vent over......I need to go for a run and get rid of this...