I've been able to resist for a little over a week now, but I'm a "fixer" and keep wanting to fix things. I have given more thought to what went wrong in my marriage. I think I expressed more what I wanted/needed to wife. I have to think harder about things I did wrong. She has asked me a couple times in past to convert miniDV tapes of the kids to DVD which (I did in the past), there are about 5 I didn't do. Do I do them now. Is that a good thing or a gift/perusing activity? I'd have to mail them off (about $10/tape) to get them done. The only other things she really ever complained about was I did not do my share of (inside) housework and kids bedtime, and I have been doing that for a month or so now and she doesn't seem to care.
