Yes, we've discussed the A a fair bit in our joint sessions in the past. We didn't in the most recent session. I think the extent of her current contact with OM is just 'keeping in touch', and who knows how often that is. I brought it up with the counselor in our 1 on 1. I mentioned how I'm really going to need a NC letter of some sort, soon. He told me to trust him to handle that with her, so that's what I'm doing.
So far, we're just a few days into our reset plan, and things are 100x better. We are communicating like a normal couple again, mainly over texts. Shes not only initiating, but responding to my messages in a positive and upbeat way. She seems genuinely excited to communicate.
I suggested we go to a cooking class on Thursday night as part of my date initiation. Wont know til Wed if it will work around her new job training, but she said it would be a great idea.
Not trying to get to ahead of myself here, but so far so good. Just need to stick to the plan and not expect more than what we both said we'd do.
M:28 | W:28 | T:4.5 | M:2.5 | No Children EA1 Uncovered: Jun 2011 EA2 Uncovered: 2011-09-29 S: 2011-09-29 I'm moving on: 2012-05-08 My story: http://bit.ly/K3ttPM
