Thanks for the response. At this point I have not idea what is going on with h. Just saw them yesterday and seems to be more self absorbed with himself - no shame in texting ow while d and myself are standing there. when things first started, h would at least try to hide what he was doing, not now. currently, thinking i will hold on for a bit just to see where things go - as long as h does not move maybe i will not either and we will see where this gets us......
