Thank you all for the encouragement and insight. It has been a few days since I've posted so I thought I'd do an update. After I came on here whining that I felt our conversation had gone downhill, I got a few more texts from H later that night that were more friendly, so maybe he was really just wondering about the bills and I took it the wrong way. Anyway, I continued to not (or rarely) instigate conversations, and I noticed that he was texting me more and more frequently. Saturday night we exchanged texts until I went to bed and then I woke up Sunday to a "good morning" text, which was sweet and something he hadn't done since I'd moved out. We even talked on the phone a little that day. Yesterday (Monday) he again sent me a text in the morning asking what I was doing that day. I said nothing really and he asked if I would like to come visit for a few days. Part of me knew that I should say no and not jump at the first chance to see him just because he asked, but I really didn't have anything to do and I was getting kind of depressed waiting to hear back about job applications, and I did need to get some stuff so I decided to drive down to see him (about 4 hours away). I got here last night and he greeted me with a hug and kiss. Obviously I am trying not to attach meaning to all of this and just enjoy some time with him. I haven't asked him what it means or brought up the R and I don't intend to. I just want to show him that we can still have fun together.
M: 27 H: 27 M: 2 T: 7+ First bomb: 10/23/2011 He changes his mind: 01/03/2012 He changes his mind again: 02/16/2012 I move out: 03/01/2012