OK. I almost missed this part. Why shouldn't I leave the bed??? Its hers. Lol. She bought it. And wouldn't that create conflict? Please someone quickly explain this to me in depth. Including potential consequences such as her pushing more towards leaving by not getting her way. Thanks a lot Denver!
In a M, items such as beds are jointly owned regardless of who actually purchased them. Who does your house belong to? You kitchen table? I don't know, I'd strongly consider staying in your bed, in your bedroom, and ultimately, your house if there ends up being a physical S.
You have to stand your ground on some things PC. This does not mean that you have to become upset or raise your voice. You just explain to her calmly what you are going to do. She may become upset, but that is her choice and there is nothing that you can do to control that.
She has to see that there are consequences for the choices that she is making.
Denver
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
