Originally Posted By: Mach1
Questions for you....


What do YOU want ???

Forget everything that is relationship related...

Forget the marriage...

What do you want your life to look like ????

What do you want your life with your son to look like ????

What do you want him (your son) to remember about his Father, many years from now ????







What I want is for our son to have a normal as possible life, preferably in an unbroken family unit. That would indicate that I should move to SC too, right?

Well, what makes that hard now is that my new job may be becoming a career path. My boss called me in last week and said that she's really impressed with my history and my current abilities that she wants me to consider taking over her position next year because she's ready to retire. I've been asking God for a sign or an open door -- could this be it?

That's my quandary. Yet another reason NOT to leave.


M37, S5
M-7y; T-8y
Separated 060410
Wife/son moved 022611
Wife serves d-papers 032011
I filed child custody 042012; obtained custody 070312
Bifurcated 103112