So. I haven't posted since receiving the letter, because later that night I tried to kill myself. Obviously unsuccessfully, though I'm not sure yet if fortunately.
I spent a week as an inpatient, and am now in a partial hospitalisation program, with 6 hours a day of group and individual sessions at the hospital.
W supposedly told lawyer I would be unable to reply by the deadline, but I know no more than that, and my therapist's opinion is that I have given my response.
Right now I'm trying to concentrate on gettting better, but it is hard to put other things out of my mind.
M 42, W 40, S 11, D 9 Together 20 years, married 15 W Dropped Bomb 1/12/2012 I moved (kicked) out 1/27/2012