I just had to post something on my mind since yesterday.

Do any of us give ourselves credit for the work we've done on ourselves?

I know I don't, but Im making myself do that everytime I start in with my self esteem going down hill.

If we can stand back and look at what we've endured, what we've learned, and how we would never act towards another as we've been treated, do we realize what an awesome partner we'd be for someone else?

There are other people out there that would feel like they've been given the greatest gift in the world to meet people like us, who have travled where we've been and have learned from it all. People that would appreciate us for WHO WE ARE and what we have to offer them as friends, companions, and lovers.

I know for me, I've gotten way too stuck within the "rejection" of it all. Damn rejection is a hard pill to swallow.

After getting to know everyone's sitch here and getting to know some of you a little better personally, I feel Im in the company of some really wonderful people. Some people I would feel very priveledged to have as friends in my life and see that any person that would choose you as a mate would be smart and have a very wonderful gift.

So everyone, go and toot your own horns! We deserve it!


M=42 XH=44
M=18 T=21
D14 D11
Divorced 4/2012
XH marries OW 6/2014.