Seriously, Eva, our lives are in parallel, even down to the kids moping to us, giving Dad the smiles and happy show, and the praying to God they return. My H is also avoiding me more and more, almost like my looking better is making him mad. Through it H maintains a light as air attitude, also due to the stroking of ego and other things by OW.
We have to get together or at least talk. I work in the City every day so we could meet after work one day for a coffee or whatever. I just need a little notice so I can make arrangments with the nanny to stay longer.
M: 39, H: 38 D: 4 Together: 19 Y Married: 9 Y Bomb #1: 11/04/11 (5 days b/f anniversary) Bomb #2 and H left: 01/03/12 (day b/f my bday) OW: confirmed, they live together already