OK. I almost missed this part. Why shouldn't I leave the bed??? Its hers. Lol. She bought it. And wouldn't that create conflict? Please someone quickly explain this to me in depth. Including potential consequences such as her pushing more towards leaving by not getting her way.
Thanks a lot Denver!

Also. I meant has anyone dealt with a diagnosed depressed spouse, with prescribed pills, etc..?

@chatterbug, thought I mentioned why I was subconsciously angry. I kept things to myself that bothered me about her. Then would 'get back' at her later through lack of affection and denial of intimacy(sex). While doing these things I did not realize I was angry or being bitter.