Another day, more baby steps -or maybe just H trying to be nice to me to get what he wants...
I don't know and I don't really care too much anymore.
It seems to me that by the time you can detach enough to truly move forward with your life without thinking of your spouse, you probably don't even really know if you want to reconcile with them any more.
I've been less focused on H - not answering all his calls, getting off the phone and saying goodbye first, making myself scarce when he's in our house, GALing, etc.
And sure enough, he's started pursuing me more.
So, just a post to remind everyone - particularly those new-ish to the horror, that moving on with your life as if H is not a part of it anymore does seem to produce changes in an H's behaviour.
Now whether this means anything in the longer term, I don't know. And I know enough not to have any expectations.
One day at a time - for many more months to come .....
