I must have missed a page in your thread somewhere...

What are you sending a letter to her for?

You just had this "conversation" with her, w/her discussing the possibility (again) Of reconciliation, but listing mostly YOUR faults... only to be followed by constant contact w/an OM.

I'm clearly missing something.

There's a time for validation. There's a time for independence.

Me-46, D-21, S15, S13

After many years w/my head in the sand...
I FILED
Divorced 6/2011

The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.