I think it's really good that we share our feelings about our partners, because it's helping us understand how they feel / felt.
I'm starting to seriously consider my options about moving out, because I don't think I can detach whilst i'm living in the same house. I'd have to see the kids everyday though, couldn't be a weekend dad.
Guys are pretty stupid when it comes to relationships and women are very complex and emotionally literate.
I know what you mean about the patience, and i'm thinking that I am not gonna wait around while she finds herself and continues her PA.
I too am not quite ready to throw in the towel, but I am not gonna be treated like this.
I've got Counselling today, boy I need it!
Take care YC
Bill
Me 34 W 32 D 9 S 6 M: 9 years T: 12 Bomb: 02/11/12 EA/PA: 12/17/11 - ongoing Moved out: Oct 2012 Joint Filed for D: 2/11/13