I didn't see it coming...but now I see everything

[breakdownbill]

Hi Norfolk

I can totally see your point of view about a lot of things and I really do need to start disengaging from my W. However, I disagree about the holiday, my children are pretty young and I want them to go on this holiday with their mum and dad, not for me, for them. I don't care how awkward or testing it may be, my kids come first. Future holidays will be different if we split, but this holiday has been planned for 3 years and the kids deserve to have us both there.

The major problem, I have about getting out and GAL is the stress i'm under @ uni trying to meet my deadlines because i'm really behind and struggling now. To make matters worse my W is helping me type up a lot of my work to help me out. I want to detach, but I find it incredibly hard, i'm trying though.

Thanks Bill